The passing of Desiree Lynne Barnes Bass on Wednesday, August 7, 2024, at the age of 53, has brought profound sorrow to her family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing her. Desiree, born on January 24, 1971, in Chesapeake, Virginia, was the beloved daughter of Dreama Barfield Barnes and David Ray Barnes. Her untimely departure leaves a void that words can scarcely convey, but her life, filled with love, dedication, and kindness, will be remembered with deep affection by all who knew her.
A Life Devoted to Family
Desiree’s life was defined by her unwavering love and commitment to her family. She was the proud mother of three cherished children: Lindsey Welbaum and her husband Michael of Raleigh, Chandler Bass and his girlfriend Alyssa Armstrong of Halifax, and Corey Bass and his partner Amy Conrad, also of Halifax. Her children were the center of her world, and she devoted herself to their happiness and well-being.
In addition to her children, Desiree is survived by her brother Shannon Barnes and his wife Ellen of Cape Carteret; her sister Davina Libbey of Halifax; her adopted brother Larry Summerlin of Cape Carteret; and her adopted sister Dakota Ray Gardner, also of Cape Carteret. Her love for her family extended far beyond the immediate, embracing her siblings and extended family members with the same warmth and care that she showed to her own children.
Desiree’s family was her pride and joy, and she was their rock. She nurtured strong bonds with her loved ones, creating a family environment that was filled with love, laughter, and mutual support. Her dedication to her family was evident in every aspect of her life, and her love for them was unconditional.
Remembering a Life of Compassion and Kindness
Desiree was known for her compassion and her ability to make everyone around her feel valued and cared for. Her kindness was not limited to her family; it extended to her friends, neighbors, and even those she met in passing. She had a special gift for connecting with people, making them feel understood and appreciated. Her generosity of spirit was a hallmark of her character, and she touched many lives with her warmth and empathy.
Those who knew Desiree remember her as a woman of great strength and resilience. She faced life’s challenges with courage and grace, always finding a way to persevere and support those around her. Her positive outlook on life, even in the face of adversity, was an inspiration to all who knew her.
Desiree’s sense of humor and infectious laughter brought joy to those around her. She had a unique ability to find light in even the darkest of times, and her optimism was a source of comfort and hope to her loved ones. Her presence was a beacon of light, and she had a way of lifting the spirits of everyone she encountered.
A Celebration of Life
To honor Desiree’s memory and celebrate the remarkable life she lived, a Celebration of Life service will be held at Hockaday Funeral & Cremation Service on Friday, August 16, 2024, at 2:00 PM. Reverend Stan Lewis will lead the service, guiding family and friends in a time of reflection and remembrance. This gathering will provide an opportunity for those who knew and loved Desiree to come together, share memories, and offer support to one another.
Following the service, the family will host a reception for friends, allowing everyone to continue to celebrate Desiree’s life and the impact she had on those around her. This time of fellowship will be a chance to honor her legacy and find comfort in the shared memories of a woman who was dearly loved.
In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that donations be made to Hockaday Funeral & Cremation Service to assist with the expenses associated with Desiree’s passing. These contributions will be greatly appreciated as the family navigates this difficult time and works to honor Desiree’s memory in a meaningful way.
A Lasting Legacy
The loss of Desiree Lynne Barnes Bass is deeply felt by all who knew her. Her legacy is one of love, determination, and unwavering support for those she held dear. She leaves behind a family that will forever cherish the memories they created together and a community that was enriched by her presence.
As her loved ones gather to celebrate her life, they find solace in the knowledge that Desiree’s spirit will live on in the hearts of those she touched. Her love, kindness, and strength will continue to inspire those who knew her, serving as a reminder of the incredible person she was.
Desiree’s passing is a reminder of the fragility of life and the importance of cherishing the moments we have with our loved ones. Her family and friends are comforted by the memories they shared with her and the knowledge that she is now at peace. Her life was a testament to the power of love and the impact one person can have on the lives of others.
In Loving Memory
As we reflect on the life of Desiree Lynne Barnes Bass, we are reminded of the profound impact she had on those around her. Her love for her family, her kindness to others, and her strength in the face of adversity will never be forgotten. Desiree’s memory will live on in the hearts of those who knew her, and her legacy of love and compassion will continue to inspire future generations.
In this time of grief, we extend our deepest condolences to Desiree’s family and friends. We stand with them as they mourn the loss of a beloved mother, sister, daughter, and friend. May they find comfort in the memories they shared with Desiree and in the knowledge that she is now at peace.
Desiree’s life was a blessing to those who knew her, and her memory will be a treasure that we carry with us always. Rest in peace, Desiree. You are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure.
